Friday 29 April 2016

Tunji Is Jealous Of My Success Tiwa; Am Sorry TJ But I'm filing For A Divorce

I know that for every human being when your
father’s ways are not straight, it will bother you.
Since I sacked him from my management, he
has been struggling financially. He was stealing
from me, so I had to save my marriage and
separate business from family. TJ wants to keep
up with the Joneses, he wants to live a life that
is not true. He went to buy a car, a Mercedes
that he knew that he didn’t have the money for
it. The person kept up calling that he wants the
balance. I ended up paying the balance of over
3M. When it was time to pay, I put the money in
his account, so they don’t know I was the person
paying for it. He also bought a Rolex, and didn’t
pay the balance. They threaten to go to the
press, and to protect my name, I will have to pay
for it. He goes to clubs and leaves the tabs for
me, and I have to pay for him. He is putting us in
debt.
What set off all off this was that he went to
borrow 45 million Naira from someone and he
lost it. I just found out that EFCC was
investigating a case against him, and my brother
called me from London and confirmed it that TJ
is in deep trouble, and that some people might
hurt him, that I should be careful. In my frantic
mode to try and suppress this situation I went to
one of my big bros who can help. A week ago I
told TJ that we were running out of Jamil’s food,
but he didn’t do nothing. He complains, but cuts
his hair twice a week. I have been searching for
N45M so that they don’t kill him, so that they
EFCC does not carry him. What kind of man does
that, and says I am the one taking away his
manhood.
I walked in on TJ taking cocaine in my house in
1004 (Victoria Island, Lagos). I didn’t even know
he takes cocaine. I walked into the kitchen, and
I saw him taking cocaine, so I screamed, and
asked if that is cocaine. HE started screaming
that ‘What am I doing down here, where is the
cocaine?’ How can someone without money take
cocaine? I called his parents and complained
that I can deal with weed, but cocaine, no. So I
am dealing with his alcohol problem, you come
home late, infidelity, coaciane, bad debt,
jealousy over my success.
Before marriage, Idin’t know of his third child in
Nigeria. A lot of people warned me about him,
but I am going to say I made a mistake. At the
beginning everyone says you can’t leave the
marriage because our culture frowns on it. I
made a mistake, do I have to wait ten years, 15
years? If I am not happy. And I was scared that
if I ever find somebody else to marry me? That’s
the msiconceptions of our society. I don’t care if
I ever get married again. I care about being
happy for Jamil, I care about not walking on
eggshells. I do want a man that works, that will
help me with my financial burden. He doesn’t
have to be a millionaire or billionaire, but at
least someone that helps, and won’t put me in
more debt.
Everyday all I hear from TJ is that ‘I created you, I took
you from nothing, look at you now.

The marriage is finally over, it’s been over for a
while, and I have covered up for a while. What
happened was God-sent, and he made it easier
for me to walk away with what he did on social
media. He got so many people angrier, he pulled
so many innocent people into this. Even his
family. He made it easy for me to finally up and
walk away.
I will never stop hum from seeing Jamil, never.
Even today, Jamil is still saying ‘dadada’, and I
was saying it with him as well, that’s his first
word. I want to bring him up to be a good man.
Even till now I don’t wish anything bad on him.
As we are doing this interview, I am worried that
if he sees it, it might trigger him to do something
bad. I don’t want my son to grow up and know,
God forbid, that his father commited suicide.
Tonight, I am still gonna pray for him.
He was getting help at one point when the whole
cocaine thing came out. This has been
happening for a long time. We get him helpo and
he goes to see a doctor or a pastor, or a
counsellor and he uses his own hands to ruin
things again. If I didn’t care about him, I
wouldn’t be covering up for a lot of things. I
wouldn’t be searching for help for him. Even
now I am still searching for a way to help him
out of his debt, so that if he is out of this,
If there is anything that maybe I overlooked, or
didn’t love him enough, or made him less of a
man, then I am sorry. I am absolutely sorry…
Tunji I am sorry. But you know I tried
everything, you know I love you so much, and I
am sorry, I never wanted to divorce, and I never
wanted it to get to this. I want you to get better…
and I would always pray for you.

My Husband Tunji Steals From Me. He Steals My Money: Tiwa Savage

Tiwa Savage has addressed the shocking accusations
levelled against her by (ex) husband Tunji ‘Teebillz’
Balogun. Yesterday, Teebillz had taken to social media
to level allegations of infidelity, neglect and passive
torture from Tiwa Savage in their marriage. He was
later reported to have attempted suicide by jumping off
the Lekki-Ikoyi bridge in Lagos.
The allegations brought on a lot of heat and discussions
on social media, with many polarizing opinions being
offered.
Tiwa Savage cries during interview on Teebillz. play
But in an exclusive interview with Azuka Ogujiuba,
ThisDay Editor, which was obtained exclusively by
Pulse TV, Tiwa Savage addressed the allegations, and
made emotional revelations about her husband.
Read the edited quotes of her interview below.
When I woke up, I thought they found him dead.
My first thought was that we need to find him, he
is suicidal, and we need to make sure he is
alive. I didn’t even know what he had said.
Someone took my phone from me, they don’t
want me to see what was said online. I was just
sacred for his life.
At around 10 and 11, Banky W’s Mum and his
family were praying, and we got the call that he
was found in Lekki, and that he has been taken
to Banky’s House.
For the past two months, TJ and I have not been
together, it was something we were working
through, but I knew this marriage would not
work.
I haven’t spoke to TJ in about a week, and we
were supposed to get some passports for my
son. He was reading the messages and he
wasn’t responding. I begged him to be friends,
and let’s be good parents to Jamil. He didn’t
respond.
I covered up for a lot of hurt in our relationship.
Just before I went to Jamaica, I found out that I
was pregnant. We were just trying to find out
how we were going to manage another baby so
soon. I got to London, on a 10-hour flight to
shoot a video with Busy Signal (Reggae Artiste).
While doing my makeup, I found out I was
bleeding and I passed out. I was rushed to the
hospital, and we were trying to call TJ to tell him
what happened. While we were sleeping at two
AM a number called him saved as Edible
Catering….I checked his phone, and the number
was asking him if she can come to his hotel.
She responded that He (TJ) knocked her out last
night, that he was a great night. I confronted
him, and he said he took another woman to the
hotel and said they were just chilling. This
happened the period I was in Jamaica, and I was
in the hospital. I sent TJ pictures, and he was
busy with another woman. I was in ahospital
and you couldn’t be bothered find out what
happened to me. I packed my stuff, took my son
and went to my friends house, her name is Tiwa
also. I stayed the night, and she asked me for
the next step, I told her I was done.
I covered up for so long because I wanted
people to believe that TJ is the one that takes
care of me, TJ is the head of the house…I
wanted him to be the head of the house. I
covered up so
TJ has not spent one Naira, I paid for hospital
bills, his flight, his accommodation, we also
went shopping for TJ so that he will have new
things. His excuse was that Í don’t have money’.
I had to pay for everything so that he can go out
and hustle, and get the contracts. He didn’t have
money for diapers, but he had money to have a
bi-weekly haircut, had money to pay for his
laundry, had money to take a woman to the
hotel.
His cooking allegations is a lie. I am not going
to say because of my career that I am not going
to cook. I work long hours to put money in the
house, I work to make sure that we have a roof
over our house. I come back home really late,
and when I make something for myself, I make
some for TJ. I had to hire a cook to cook for me,
him and the other people that live in the house, I
don’t think that is wrong…Even if it is true, the
things he puts me through will not even
encourage me to ask him if he is hungry. He
goes out and you come home at 7 in the
morning, sometime 2pm. He comes back drunk,
he comes back angry, and we don’t know what
sort of mood he is in. Sometimes TJ will go out
and he will not call, and he will not tell him. I am
just sacred for his safety, I will be calling him
frantically, to find out that he didn’t go and
drink. I am even praying that he is with another
woman, so that at least I know that he is alive.
That’s not the person that I will ask if he has
eaten.
When I sacked him as my manager – I will
never discredit or take away that TJ worked
hard, hustled and believed in me. But what I will
say is that at one point….he is booking events
and he will book shows. The first time I found
out that there was foul play was when he booked
me for a wedding in London. I have to be paid
before I perform. I called one of the organisers,
and said I have not been paid. He said that the
show has been paid four months ago, he showed
me the account were they paid him. TJ declared
that the show was for 3M but they really paid
4.5M, out of the 3M he was still receiving the
management fee 40%. He took money already,
and collected his percentage, and he didn’t feel
anything. He was stealing from his wife. I had to
perform at the wedding for free. I do get to
perform for free when he takes my money.
My mum is based in the UK, and when I had
Jamil she moved back to Nigeria with us. My
mother is not like that (witchcraft), she is a
sweet lady, and she’s very British, she doesn’t
judge, she is not hung up like that. A lot of
times, my mom would say
‘Tiwa you are the
wife, be patient, don’t curse don’t shout, build
the home.’ She has been nothing but a great
support for me. I would love for him to tell me if
there is something my mother has done.
I have never cheated on my husband. Not with
Don Jazzy, Dr Sid, 2face Idibia or anybody. I
have never cheated on my husband, and Tunji
knows this. He knows that in his heart. (She
breaks down in tears) Sometimes in the studio,
one of the things that Don Jazzy and some of my
other label mates say is that I am really good
with interviews, with being diplomatic and
knowing how to carry myself with difficult
situations. This hurts. I have seen comments of
what people are saying about me. It is not true.

To be Continued

Tiwa: I love My Husband But Our Marriage Is Over...I Pray For Him To Get Well

The last surely hasn’t been heard of the breakdown of
the marriage between 323 Management boss Tee Billz
and pop star Tiwa Savage , as more critical observations
and analyses continue to trail the unsavoury outbursts
by the 323 Entertainment head yesterday.
New reports, according to sources who spoke to
Encomium , reveal that the couple’s union had been on
life support since last year. The sources reveal that the
pair have struggled to sustain their union and this
culminated in Tee Billz moving out of their duplex in
Lekki Peninsula Scheme 1, Lagos, two weeks ago.
The couple had a glamorous wedding ceremony in far
away Dubai states on April 26, 2014, making their
second wedding anniversary just three days ago (April
26, 2016).
Now, the day went unnoticed by many as even the
couple didn’t take to their respective social media
accounts to celebrate the day – as would several
celebrities – instead, Tiw
a was busy promoting her new
music visuals, ‘If I Talk’, while Billz uncharacteristically
didn’t show support for the song online.
This lends credence to the reports of discord in their
marriage, even as Billz was busy partying with Bobby
Taylor who was celebrating his birthday while Tiwa
with her Mavin crew, was celebrating the release of her
new video at Escape nightclub on Adeola Odeku,
Victoria Island, Lagos with her fans on the night of their
second wedding anniversary.
According to the news publication’s sources, the
marriage was ‘bedevilled by many factors, especially
those bordering on money, trust and responsibility’.

Tiwa Savage; My Husband Is A Drug Addict And is In Huge Debt

The songstress in an exclusive interview obtained by
Pulse yesterday, Thursday, April 28, 2016 revealed all
the nitty-gritty going on in their home.
According to her, “I am dealing with infidelity, cocaine,
bad debt and a husband jealous of his wife’s success.”
“I walked in on TJ taking cocaine in my
house in 1004 (Victoria Island, Lagos). I
didn’t even know he takes cocaine. I
walked into the kitchen, and I saw him
taking cocaine, so I screamed, and asked
if that is cocaine. HE started screaming
that ‘What am I doing down here, where is
the cocaine?’ How can someone without
money take cocaine? I called his parents
and complained that I can deal with weed,
but cocaine, no. So I am dealing with his
alcohol problem, you come home late,
infidelity, cocaine, bad debt, jealousy over
my success.”
Speaking further on the allegations she revealed their
marriage has been full of infidelity, mismanagement of
funds and mental abuse.
She also said they’ve gotten help for the embattled
artiste manager several times but he keeps backsliding.
Savage said, “He was getting help at one point when
the whole cocaine thing came out. This has been
happening for a long time. We get him help and he goes
to see a doctor or a pastor, or a counsellor and he uses
his own hands to ruin things again. If I didn’t care
about him, I wouldn’t be covering up for a lot of things.
I wouldn’t be searching for help for him. Even now I am
still searching for a way to help him out of his debt.”
Also speaking about her mental abuse, she said,
“Everyday all I hear from TJ is that ‘I created you, I took
you from nothing, look at you now.”